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Apr. 22nd, 2011 | 10:42 pm

So, my cat Henry died a couple months ago.
I was going to take my cat to be cremated at the vets and pay for it. Matthew insisted that his new girlfriend's friend who is a vet do the cremation~~ for free! I thought, well, that's great. He said the ashes would be ready in a week or so.
That was 2 months ago.
I called and emailed Matthew today to PLEASE take care of removing my name from the 2 mortgages, for I signed over the house to him 3 months ago. I also asked him when I could come pick up my bicycle, because I no longer own a vehicle and it IS my bike.
He writes back that since he got contacted by one of my student loan companies for payment, he will not release my cat's ashes nor give me my bike back.
Matthew is a co-signer on ALL my student loans.
He never thinks about the role he has played through all this. He has become quite the little extortionist.
So, no Henry and no bicycle.
What a fucking prick.
He disturbs me on many levels.
Sorry to be preachy, but he seriously has zero morals.
Case in point: He told me that he had sex with our mutual friend, who has terminal breast cancer. He wrote on twitter about it: "one last shag is the least I can do for her. She's dying and no one would fuck her."
He's such a piece of shit!
And people actually wonder why I left him.

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Rhiannon

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from: rhiannonrising
date: Apr. 23rd, 2011 05:48 am (UTC)
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UGH. Don't FUCK with the kitty's ashes. What an asshole, seriously. Very uncool. I will be so glad when you are free and clear of him.

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the bad seed

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from: kittykristi
date: Apr. 23rd, 2011 05:53 am (UTC)
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yes, it hurts to never have a part of my cat that I loved for 10 years.
He just has to control EVERYTHING.
He disgusts me!

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Rhiannon

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from: rhiannonrising
date: Apr. 23rd, 2011 06:15 am (UTC)
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He disgusts me too. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this, my God. I really hope you get your kitty and your bike.

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the bad seed

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from: kittykristi
date: Apr. 23rd, 2011 06:16 am (UTC)
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he just emailed me and I replied. I'll post it. He always plays the fucking victim.

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holdon2dreams

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from: holdon2dreams
date: Apr. 23rd, 2011 05:55 am (UTC)
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They do????
Gee it seems pretty obvious to me.
I'm really really hoping that he has a change of heart, and hope things work out with your bike and Henry.
I know it doesn't make it better, but Henry is with you...he doesn't care, he doesn't feel like you've "let him down" or anything by not having his ashes in your possession (that's how I would feel if I were in the situation) and don't ask me how I know how a cat feels but I just know that in the long run it's not going to be as important as it is now. I still hope it changes.

So usually I'm a take the high road kind of gal but anyway you could make him "regret" cosigning your loans without ruining your credit yourself?

What goes around comes around...hopefully soon for the sake of your sanity. Someone needs to cut you a break and pop his fucking egotistical self centered bubble.

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